Desire Lines: A Memoir

Cover artwork for Desire Lines: a woman with flowing hair rendered in ultramarine, cobalt and periwinkle blues

Red Hen Press · October 6, 2026

Desire Lines

Print · E-book · Audiobook narrated by the author

  • ★ Starred review — Shelf Awareness
  • A most anticipated feminist book of 2026 — Ms. Magazine
  • Exclusive cover reveal — PEOPLE

On tour fall 2026 — see dates →

★Shelf Awareness · Starred Review

“As she gazes through the clarifying lenses of midlife, motherhood, and a loving marriage to make peace with her past, Young provides an intellectually courageous road map for readers reconciling the cracks in their own family narratives.

Embedded with gems from other feminist icons, Desire Lines is the graceful work of a writer triumphantly exerting her right, “like a goddess,” to bask in her “own radiance.””

—Shahina Piyarali in a starred review

Seattle Magazine · September 2026

“…an unflinching look at the challenge of balancing one’s own desires with the demands of motherhood, marriage, and work, and the lengths creative women will go to produce their art… Desire Lines is a potent feminist text.”

Pleiades: Literature in Context · In conversation

“These essays are a liberation, too, then. They are a confrontation, a reckoning and a revelation. They are an invitation from Millares Young and from a full choir of feminist writers and thinkers whose words interweave her own throughout the book, to refuse diminishment and erasure.”

—Beth Ward in a conversation for Pleiades

PEOPLE · Exclusive cover reveal

“Had I known I would write a memoir, I might not have allowed myself to become a writer. I spent 20 years making sure other people’s stories were heard. Current circumstances forced me to get personal. With Desire Lines, I hope to show the beauty and freedom we make possible when we refuse to abandon our truths.”

—Kristen Millares Young, in an exclusive cover reveal and interview for PEOPLE

Havana Times · In conversation

“A desire line is proof that people choose against the path that was planned for them. What moves me is that it’s collective. We may feel alone out there. We’re not. …

I want people to stop reading their own deviations as personal failures. If they are that, it is only of obedience. A desire line is evidence: You have company. We may feel alone on our journeys, but we are not alone.”

—Yours truly, in a conversation with Selena Mercuri for Havana Times

Desire Lines: A Memoir by Kristen Millares Young — the book cover

Cover Art by Anna Madruga of Red Hen Press

Desire Lines

Desire Lines is a forensic investigation into the emotional topography of being a woman, a writer and a mother. In my debut memoir, I seek possibilities for women’s liberation amid the ongoing erosion of our human rights. Desire Lines excavates submerged truths about motherhood, the body and the sacred.

Desire Lines takes its title from footpaths—of necessity, defiance and longing—that emerge next to the routes that were planned for us. Challenging myself to be a mother unlike what I have known, I center my own body as a site of resistance and making.

Tracing my matrilineage from Cuba to Spain, I uncovered the remnants of a pagan cult whose mother goddess, Cybele, was erased to make way for the Virgin Mary. But Cybele was no virgin.

On the edge of an impasse, written as both invitation and veil, Desire Lines reclaims the power siphoned from women’s stories, wielding the lyric essay for awakening consciousness.

In the press

Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore in the Seattle Times: “Her quest for freedom emerges as part of a lineage of resistance.”
A Literary Hub card quoting Desire Lines: “In Delphi, I was already pregnant, but I did not yet know. With me among the toppled columns were cells dividing in a freefalling swarm, grappling like eagles tumbling from a cliff.”
People’s exclusive cover reveal of Desire Lines: a photograph of Kristen Millares Young by Jenn Furber beside the book cover
The exclusive cover reveal in People
“As a girl, I was taught to fear my own story. As a woman, I know better. Revelations await beneath the lies we are told about ourselves and the icons we worship. This book holds the light I was hiding from myself.”

—PEOPLE Magazine interview

Ms. Magazine’s most anticipated feminist books of 2026
“Kristen Millares Young’s debut memoir explores womanhood, motherhood, liberation and embodiment with an eye toward uncovering truths that awaken and enlighten.”—Ms. Magazine, January 2026
Ms. Magazine’s best new feminist books for October 2026, with the cover of Desire Lines among them
“These 15 essays reveal a keen, curious spirit in search of wonder, wisdom and freedom.”—Ms. Magazine, October 2026
University of Washington Magazine’s feature “Myths, mortality and motherhood,” by Shin Yu Pai, with a portrait of Kristen Millares Young by Chona Kasinger
“To Be a Woman,” the review of Desire Lines in the print pages of Seattle magazine, with the magazine’s masthead and the book cover
Seattle magazine · September/October 2026
Alta Journal’s “15 New Books for October,” with the cover of Desire Lines among the fifteen
“Young, an award-winning novelist and journalist, releases a bold debut memoir, which tackles the weight of being a woman, writer, and mother. Tracing her ancestry from Cuba to Spain, she analyzes the emotions of female liberation…”—Alta Journal
A card from The Common: “Seeking a Mother in the Ruins” by Kristen Millares Young, quoting “When Hannibal was loose in Italy and could not be made to leave, the Romans did a strange thing. They consulted their books of prophecy, and the books told them to go get a mother.”
A card from Pleiades: Literature in Context quoting Beth Ward: “Kristen Millares Young went looking for God and found a woman, found a goddess, found herself.”

Advance praise

“In Desire Lines, Kristen Millares Young explores womanhood, human rights, and identity with a moral imperative and artistry that few writers achieve. She is an immense literary talent, and this remarkable book should be read by all.”
— Brandon Hobson, National Book Award finalist
author of The Devil is a Southpaw, The Removed
and Where the Dead Sit Talking
“These emotionally gripping essays delve into the complexities of familial love and obligation. Kristen Millares Young seamlessly weaves together personal experience, historical research, mythology, and cultural critique in a memoir that feels both timely and timeless. Her prose is alive with style and poetic lyricism.”
— Weike Wang, winner of PEN/Hemingway and Whiting awards
author of Chemistry and Joan Is Okay
“Kristen Millares Young brings a searching, generous, and unrelenting gaze to every subject she writes on, most of all herself.”
— Melissa Febos, National Book Critics Circle Award winner
author of Girlhood and The Dry Season
“In this tremendous memoir, Kristen Millares Young grips the reader’s hand and leads us into the terrifying place where all life comes from. She is intrepid, incisive. Generous and unsparing is her consideration of mothering, the ordinary and glorious act that keeps the world renewing itself. I loved this book.”
— Elissa Washuta, PEN Open Book Award finalist
author of White Magic and My Body Is a Book of Rules
“Kristen Millares Young is a fearless woman who will go places other writers might fear to tread. I have admired her fierce honesty and craft for a long time and am thrilled to have this explosive and daring memoir in my hands. More, please.”
— Luis Alberto Urrea, Pulitzer Prize finalist
author of The Devil’s Highway
“Kristen Millares Young’s memoir Desire Lines is a sage instruction manual for how to choose love over harm, joy over despair, art over ruin. Strength and affection shine from every page. In a patriarchal world that seeks to break us, this is a defiant and triumphant howl of wholeness, both electrifying and healing.”
— Sharma Shields, Washington State Book Award winner
author of The Cassandra

Conversations

The cover of Embodied with Elizabeth Patricia DiAlto Figueroa
“This episode is especially for women questioning inherited expectations around who they’re supposed to be, what their bodies should look like, what they’re allowed to want, and which paths they’re permitted to take…”—Elizabeth Patricia DiAlto Figueroa, Embodied, EP 479
Peter Riehl and Kristen Millares Young in conversation on video
“Deep Chronicler of the Mystical and the Practical, and Charter of Wonderful and Disturbing Throughlines of History”—Peter Riehl, The Chills at Will Podcast
Red Hen Radio: Kristen Millares Young and Kate Gale beside the cover of Desire Lines
“They traded out this imagery, but the ferocity remains beneath.”—Yours truly, in conversation with Kate Gale for Red Hen Radio, “The Goddess Whose Lions Were Stolen”